A strange milestone was reached in our house yesterday (Friday). Cian arrived home from school and determined that he was ready for a sleepover at his friends' house - Miles and Carson. As we discussed it, his "closing arguement" was that, "you need some alone time tonight; where there is no one calling in the middle of the night; no one up early in the morning; no one asking "rub my back pleaaassseeee"; just time for yourself".
Wow. Couldn't argue with that one, I tell ya.
And so it was, he called up Jenn (Miles' mother) -- and invited himself over for a sleepover.
From idea to plan in less than 10 minutes.
And while one would then assume that the parents were free for a wild night and a long sleep in, it all ended with Anne asleep on the couch by 10.45 and me getting up at 7AM because, well, I just couldn't sleep.
The house felt kind of empty. Even the dog was confused -- walking into Cian's room this morning only to find an empty bed.
Anne's summary was, "this must be what empty nesters feel. Imagine what it'll be like when he leaves for good in 15 years or so".
Shit, it's no wonder I didn't sleep.